HEALING HEARTS

 This happened a few weeks back my friend was going through a really bad breakup, I saw her struggling to keep herself together. I also saw she was struggling to keep herself together not because she didn't want the breakup but because she couldn't handle the anxiety and mental disturbance the toxicity the relation brought. I was talking to her about it, she said she gave her partner multiple chances to change but he would never do justice to the chance he got every time. his toxic behavior never changed, it got worst over time, so she decided to breakup.

I couldn't keep myself from asking her if she ever regrets any of it, and to my surprise she exactly answered what I thought of. she said she knew in the first place itself things weren't gonna end well with the two. But we are humans and we do things which we know we shouldn't do. That's exactly how human psychology works, we are more keen to do things we are prohibited to do and not think about the consequences of our actions. she said she regrets starting anything with him in the first place itself. And I did not expect anything more from her because I saw her go through hell during their relationship.

But her answer got me thinking about can we regret having someone in our life who has been or was a huge part of our life, With whom we share some of the happiest moments of life, who's presence around you once meant the world to you, who you thought would your ultimate savior from the world's cruel side. After a quite good amount of time and thinking I realized, YES it is possible to regret all of it. All of the happy times, the laughs, the moments And the PERSON ofcourse. Because none of it not the happy times , laughs , moments and not even the person can cover up or mask up the toxicity the person brought. There's nothing in the world that can cover up for the destruction of the peace you had in your life, PEACE is all that maters in the end. Not happiness, not sadness, no love , no nothing , only peace and just peace.

We all want something in our lives, we all desire for something in our lives. Some want happiness , some want satisfaction , some want success , some want love , some want pleasure. And when we pursue what we want or what we desire, it is the ultimate way to the finding peace in life. Because when a human gets what it wants, it brings peace to their soul, and when your soul is at peace everything is at peace in your life.

So YES , you can regret every single thing or even a person that cost you your peace.